as when one is kid and is taken to the beach by your parents, and you go by the shore, and start building a castle in the sand, just there as the sun rays hit you on the back and waves can destroy the castle you are building.
well a similar strategy can be followed to be happy, build your own castle in the sand if a girl y passing by and is curious will ask questions, either she will leave or stay and help you building the castle making it nicer, bigger or new ideas, the wave may destroy the castle totally or partially but both will re build it fast and will be better, that is how you can find someone to share happiness, in the end the sunburn will hit you both as life/age is and you will see you on the eye each other if you both smile is that you are happy and you have made it.
